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Breakup Advice
After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.
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random, but i also found out he's a liar. After we broke up the most recent time, we were still in contact, and told him about how i just came home from choir rehearsals. HE asked about the show-- when and where it was. HE SAID HE WOULD COME. I get a txt in the middle of the show with a ":)". At the end of the show, he said "it was nice to see you again. you looked beautiful as always". I ask him what song he liked best. He couldn't remember the name. I asked him if he had a pamplet with all the songs on it-- nope. I went and asked my mom about whether they gave any out. She said they handed them to you WITH THE TICKET. So i texted him "you didn't come did you?" His response: "I'm sorry... it would have hurt too much to see you" WHAT A JERK.
i love to tell you but i have no idea... my two best friends dated each other for about 6 months then they broke up. they fighted a lot and i was always caught in the middle of it. i didn't really knoq what to tell them cuz both would get upset if i said something good about the other for a while. they got over it but i wish i could have told them somehing along these lines. kinda unrealated........