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Breakup Advice
After those amazing relationships end, you have to ask yourself how things will continue. If you broke up with your partner, you must either be unhappy with them, mad at them, tired of them, or some other circumstance. So, if it is you who breaks up with the other, stop and think. As one single person, you don't have any idea what the other might go through. One moment to you is completely different that that of another. For example, you might go on a date and have the time of your life, oblivious to that fact that the one you care for is about to slit their wrists in boredom.
Just and example.
But that is something that you can relate to a breakup. You might think that things are better off without the other. They might be tripping and falling behind you, trying to catch up and get you back. It happens a lot, and these breakups are the worst. I myself went through one. And I've scraped my knees so much over these past to years tripping and falling after her(yes, two years. She's so beautiful I can't stop thinking about her). I've found out the the first and most important thing you can do to stay out of those horrible, bad break ups, is to forget. Easier said then done, right? Well, there is only one way to completely get over such a thing. Overwrite the memories that the two of you shared. Now, people call this a rebound, but isn't every boyfriend/girlfriend after the first a rebound? You must make better memories with this person. Have a greater time, and think about the new things you share rather then all the things you used to share with the other. Take it from me, with time, almost everything is mendable.
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It's basically the same story for me too. Our relationship was a long distance relationship and I had just turned 14 when we started dating. We were together for almost 1 year and he got into an accident. So, we couldn't talk for awhile but when he got back to me, he told me that we should breakup and that he had found someone else in that time period that we didn't talk. I was so devastated and immediately blocked him afterwards. I had stopped cutting a few years back due to a personal reason. But after that breakup, I started cutting again. I would just stay up late crying over him, thinking of our memories together and blocking family and friends from my life. One day, my best friend decided it was enough and brought me out of the house. When my best friend first brought me out of the house, I would just drag myself through the streets. But, she brought me to a restaurant and talked to me about her first breakup and how much damage she had done to her family and friends when she blocked them out like I was doing at the time, Eventually, we ended up going to almost every shop and had a movie date with some of our other friends and had a blast. Soon after that, I started returning to my normal self with the help of my best friend who kept me on the right track whenever I would stray away from it. Just like everyone else on here saying how breakups hurt and everything. It does, it really does. But you have to keep in mind that no matter who you are dating, you will always have someone who has your back no matter what. In my case, it was my best friend. It may be someone else for you guys. But if you guys do breakup due to a bad reason, just remember that you have your family and friends who will help you through anything. So keep your head held high and keep moving forwards no matter what life throws at you.