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Teenage Love and Relationships/Dating (Teens views and Adults views)

September 18, 2013
By AshleeNicolePayne BRONZE, St. Joseph, Missouri
AshleeNicolePayne BRONZE, St. Joseph, Missouri
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TAlthough most adults will tell us teenagers that is not really real love that it’s just fake because they think we’re too young to even know what love really is. Almost each and every teenager will disagree with any and every adult that disagrees with teenage love and relationships/dating. Teenagers have a very strong disagreement with the adults’ views on teenage love and relationships. Teenage love happens all over the world now days; some adults do not agree with teenage love, saying that it’s not love/dating and that teenagers don’t even know what love is yet.

There are a bunch of major issues now-days with the teens now days, dating, but one major issue is the teen girls keep getting pregnant. Teen pregnancy is the one major reason why most adults think teen dating should not even happen yet. When teens are dating that's when most teen girls end up getting pregnant. A lot of the teen girls that end up getting pregnant while they're still in high school end and dropping out of high school. One of the major reasons teen girls end up pregnant in the first place because their parents or parent lets the girl go live with her boyfriend or they let the boyfriend move in with them, which is the wrong thing to do. Another reason teenage girls end up getting pregnant is because is they're so dang careless and dumb, no offence intended to all the teen moms out there because in my family I have a cousin that got pregnant at 16 and had her baby at 16 then three years later when she was 19 she got pregnant again. I know I'm a 14-years-old, but I don't think I'll end up pregnant at 15 or 16 or at all while I'm a teenager, but we never know what the future holds until it just happens.

Adults’ views on teenage love and relationships/dating are way different than a teenagers view. Adults will say that it's not. Adults will also say that it's not love/dating and that teenagers don't even know what love is yet. Yet, some adults believe it is what last the longest now days.

Teenagers views on teenage love and relationships/dating is that they agree with teen love and relationships/dating. Pretty much every teenager has already started dating a boy or girl by the age of 13. Some teens just don't take love seriously enough and then something bad happens before they know. Teens take love for granted and then the love can/could end right before their eyes. Some teenagers just can't act mature in a relationship because, they just don't know how to act.

One of the most major reasons that teens end up breaking up is because of how the guy acts or something that the guy does. Guys in relationships really do not have any boundaries what-so-ever. The guys are normally the reason why most teenagers’ relationships break-up, at least 99.9% of the time. The teenage boys can be so irrogant and idiotic sometimes. The girls will agree with each other that the teenage boys do tend to get a little bit too touchy and that they get annoyed with the teenage boys when they get touchy. I will say that yes, I know how the other girls feel, especially since I have a boyfriend that acts like that. He tends to only want to talk about certain things. Sometime when I’m talking to my boyfriend it's like he's smothering me with love because he's always saying, “ I Love You,” to me don't get me wrong I like it when he tells me he loves me, but Sometimes it gets to be too much.

So, teenage love over all can be very stressful at times. Rember that even if it’s getting stressful don't give up on your love for that person. All you need to do is keep your head held high. Also don’t let other people bring you down about your relationship with that girl or boy.



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